Adult Toys For Couples 101 – 7 Things Every Beginner Should Know

Adult toys are a great way to improve the intimacy between partners. And it is a shame that so few couples dare to experiment. Here we will discuss the most common tricky moments of your journey towards sexual pleasure. These are things you would have figured out eventually one way or another, but you’ll be wishing there was someone to tell you of them.

1. The first impression is important.
You may have heard that before. Usually one of the partners in a relationship is the first to start thinking about what it would be to use sex toys. And after spending some time imagining different situations, he/she begins to wonder how to tell that to the other significant half. If the situation feels awkward, just imagine how much more intimate you’ll get with your partner when you introduce sex toys.

2. The beginning.
It’s important to go for some small and not-that-freaky-looking adult toy. After all, you’re just starting out, and some enormous dildo can scare the shit out of you. I know that from personal experience. You can have really pleasant moments with a small sex toy. And besides, you can always get a bigger one so just take it easy.

3. To women: Don’t think your husband will be thrilled.
Again – personal experience. Of course that doesn’t mean yours will be the same, but just consider it as an option. He may think that there’s something wrong with what he’s doing in bed. Explain to him, that toys are a way to make your love life better.

4. To men: Make sure your partner is comfortable with introducing sex toys in your love game. While men don’t have that much worries, women are very serious about making the right impression. You know that paradox, don’t you: If a man sleeps with many women, he’s a playboy (a good thing). If a woman sleeps with many men, she’s a whore (not so good thing). So women have their right to be a little more conservative than men.

5. To both of you: Never push yourself into doing something you wouldn’t enjoy. Sex is meant to be fun. Intimacy is made to be fun too. Sometimes we tend to forget why we are doing what we are doing, and it’s good to get back on track. Don’t try new things if they feel bad. Here’s one foolproof advice: make giving and receiving pleasure your main goal.

6.You can get tons of pleasure without using sex toys.
There is no need to use sex toys all the time. Your partner will do everything to give you pleasure, and quite often that will be enough for you to feel satisfied. Of course, if you find that you like using sex toys, use them often. And keep in mind, that you do not need sex toys in order to have a good time in bed with your partner.

7. Use an adult toy on yourself in front of your partner
Some men and women would feel uncomfortable if they use a sex toy on themselves in front of their partners. You know what? Your partner will be happy to watch as you give yourself pleasure. It is very arousing and very intimate. He/she will also learn what turns you on, what feels good for you, and will do it more often.